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#1 Scipio

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:31 PM

So I went for a holiday to England a couple of weeks ago, which included a visit to Marikwannabe/Mr.Chaos/Luke, and to the girl I love.



I now have to move to England come summer to support my child.






Let that sink in to you. Yes. I got my girl pregnant, despite the use of a condom. This...really will change my life, forcing my move as we decided to keep the baby. Fortunately, both our parents are supporting us, so we should be able to cope.

Let this be a small warning to people who have sex right now. Even condoms, said to be the most save anti-pregnacy method (Yeah, theres the pill, but she can't take that due to health problems) can fail you.

The thing is...I never considered myself ready for a baby. Yes, I'm 22, but I'm not really mature, I know that much of myself. And my girl, she's only 17. It's going to be rough...but we'll pull through, I'm certain of it.

I'm posting here because I enjoyed my time here and there are still people who know me, and vice versa. Ofcourse, you're not the first ones to know, but oh well, wanted to give you all some space to say something, or be warned.
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#2 Shadow

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:32 PM

Oh...my...god...

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:33 PM

Abortion is cool.

Nice to see you around, Dutchy.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:34 PM

This will be an epic child.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:35 PM

Abortion is cool.

Nice to see you around, Dutchy.[/b]


No. We're keeping the baby, we already decided.
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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:37 PM

All the best for you, your girlfriend and the baby.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:38 PM

Damn.

That's tragic. Was that the only time you grapeed her or was it just a "matter of time" sorta thing.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:41 PM

Abortion is cool.

Nice to see you around, Dutchy.[/b]


No. We're keeping the baby, we already decided.
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Yeah, sorry, I missed that in the original post. Ah well. If you think that's the best course of action, then the best of luck to you. I agree that I couldn't envision myself being mature enough to have a child ever, much less before I'm 25.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:42 PM

Er...

Uh...

Good... luck with... that.

*Shakes head*

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:43 PM

Is Luke going to be the godfather?

Hope everything turns out well.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:46 PM

As long as you raise it English and not dutch.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:48 PM

If it's a boy, promise me to name it Max.

Tom if it's a girl.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:49 PM

You're gonna be such an AWESOME father. No joke.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 03:51 PM

I hope Tom reads this.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 04:04 PM

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 04:13 PM

Wow man, I've had problems with this in the past, and it's crazy to see it happen to you. The way you approach the issue in your post, shows that you're ready to be a father.

Good luck, best of wishes, and pics soon tongue.gif

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#17 Scipio

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 04:21 PM

All the best for you, your girlfriend and the baby.[/b]

Thank you.

Damn.

That's tragic. Was that the only time you grapeed her or was it just a "matter of time" sorta thing.[/b]

We did it a couple of times, so...its a bit unlucky, but tragic? Really now.

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Abortion is cool.

Nice to see you around, Dutchy.[/b]


No. We're keeping the baby, we already decided.
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Yeah, sorry, I missed that in the original post. Ah well. If you think that's the best course of action, then the best of luck to you. I agree that I couldn't envision myself being mature enough to have a child ever, much less before I'm 25.
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I could envision myself with a child. But preferably around my 30th. Not this soon.

Er...

Uh...

Good... luck with... that.

*Shakes head*[/b]

Why the head shaking?

Is Luke going to be the godfather?

Hope everything turns out well.[/b]

No, he isn't. There are some...issues between him and my girlfriend.

As long as you raise it English and not dutch.[/b]

It will be a mix. Toast with bacon, chocolate sprinkles and cheese.

If it's a boy, promise me to name it Max.

Tom if it's a girl.[/b]

No. Just no.

You're gonna be such an AWESOME father. No joke.[/b]

I smell sarcasm.

I hope Tom reads this.[/b]

He will, sooner or later.

Wow. Best of luck man.[/b]

Thanks a lot.

Wow man, I've had problems with this in the past, and it's crazy to see it happen to you. The way you approach the issue in your post, shows that you're ready to be a father.

Good luck, best of wishes, and pics soon tongue.gif[/b]

Pics will be there when the kid is born, which will be due summer. Anyway, I don't think I'm fully ready, but I've taken the risk, so I take the responsibility. I hope I can be a good father.
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Posted 23 November 2008 - 04:35 PM

introduce him/her to online pokemon and the internet in general as soon as possible!

also pics of dumpster!!
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In the past 10 days, my girl had a miscarriage, her parents started to hate me and our relationship broke as a result, and I went back to Holland, now temporarily living with my parents again.

Remember. Life is grapeed up. And it's out to get you.


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Posted 23 November 2008 - 04:39 PM

Sarcasm to you? Never. I think you're gonna be good. What godman said was true. It'll be a little foreign to you at first, but you'll probably adjust.

Good luck with everything, keep us informed I suppose.

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 04:44 PM

Make his/her first word "ETC".

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